Thursday, April 9, 2009

A Few Posts On Bullies And How They Operate

----- Original Message -----
From: Wakanska
Sent: Thursday, April 09, 2009 6:11 PM
Subject: Re: dog_anti-rescue_anti-peta_new Fw: [doglegislation] TX - Uno lobbies at the Capitol



I had to kick a hustler and con man out of a relative's home a couple of years ago. We should have taken lessons from this guy. He was a drug user, so he needed a co-dependant in his life, and he was very manipulative to always keep people off balance and subservient to him. He acted like a bully, sometimes getting wildeyed and frenzied in anger. Occasionally, he would be really nice, and treat you like his friend, or do something thoughtful.. all designed to keep the victim guessing, never sure what to do, whether to leave the relationship, etc.
One of the things he would do is to accuse others of doing crappy things. A good person wants to defend their reputation, or repair the misunderstanding. So, you tend to engage them and try to be a "fixer". This is where they get good, ethical people and twist them into any shape they want. We need to understand that we are NOT responsible for the other guy's problem! That's where we buy into their game as a co-dependant.
The animal rights organizations are dependants on others. They produce nothing. They only accuse and exploit. They are looking for victims and co-dependants, and they use their wiles and the naivety of "good", well-intentioned people to continue the con game.

--- On Thu, 4/9/09, Thomas Kirby <slowswimmer1@yahoo.com> wrote:

From: Thomas Kirby <slowswimmer1@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: dog_anti-rescue_anti-peta_new Fw: [doglegislation] TX - Uno lobbies at the Capitol
To: dog_anti-rescue_anti-peta_new@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, April 9, 2009, 4:31 PM

Because that's something that they can take away from their opposition by making it appear to be immoral.  As long as they can make any pretense to any sort of attempt to help animals the AR people can continue the charade that their money is for helping animals.  It's simple strategy.  Deny their opponent the use and benefit even of their own resources.  This is also what they do with potential donors, not that I see anyone on our side saying "please donate to us so that we can help the animals" which would be the truth.

The truth is that buying dogs helps animals.  Almost any home is better than a stinking AR-managed kennel and offers a much better chance of survival and a pleasing life for the animals.

Some of us good people don't get what we want because we're so busy being good, even trying to satisfy unreasonable standards, that we don't ask.  They're making us spin our wheels and go nowhere.


-Meeting the animal rights activist halfway is trading something that you already own for something else that you already own.  They're entitled to nothing and should be given even less. 

My blog: www.animalculture. org

Tom K

--- On Wed, 4/8/09, Wakanska <wakanska2003@ yahoo.com> wrote:

Why are these anti breeding activists so obsessed with the possibility that someone might make money on a litter? HSUS is the organization with millions in annual income. God knows the dog people don't have it!

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Mandatory spay and neuter means pets must grow old and die without replacements. No more babies, no more pets in our homes.  Stop it before it's nationwide. Sterile animals cannot replenish themselves. It's the "facts" of life.
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posted by Capri at Thursday, April 09, 2009

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